I thought about that question a lot. In fact I didn't start out making my own car. I spent all the time on my sons car. With him. Then one year I decided I wanted to build one too. Just to try it out. His car was coming along nice, he was getting older and could do more work on his own. Plus who wouldn't want a Rat Rod Ford Effie. (My son doesn't apparently.) So I set out to create a fun and unique truck. This is it.
53 Ford F100 Rat Rod Pinewood Derby Car 2012 |
It has a flat walnut bed, 13 gauge finishing nail bed rails, & bullet gas tank. Custom Altoids tin grill, trimmed out with super fast fire flames. (This truck is as slow as the tractor)
This little endeavor had some surprising benefits. Here are a few of them.
1. My Kids see me working on the same type of project.
How often do kids want to feel like they are doing something grown up and not childish. Seeing me do the same project lets them know, "Hey, this isn't just kid's stuff." Also my excitement and attention to detail (cool details like over sized blowers coming out of the engine) helps them dream bigger too.Daughter's butterfly car, my tractor, and son's hot rod being painted at same time. They usually take turns on mine while painting their own. |
You know how tedious sanding is? If you are sanding on your car while watching Phineas and Ferb, They are more likely to sand on their car at the same time. Have them check you car, let them find rough spots (Whoops, you accidentally missed those on purpose.)
2. I don't take over their project.
Every pack has those dads that brings in a $500 car and tries to pass it off as his little ADHD Carroll Shelby built it last night. I like to talk to kids about what THEY did to their car at check-in. It's pretty east to tell who did what. Sure kids need help, guidance, instruction, encouragement, and for us adults to do some of the detailed parts. But it should be mostly the kid's. As a kid gets older, the cars should look worse because we are doing less. (It could be we are spending so much time on our masterpiece.)3. They learn by Explain, Demonstrate, Guide, Enable. (EDGE)
I will let them practice on scrap wood before letting them use the scroll saw to cut on their car. Yes, I let my wolf and bear use a scroll saw. I don't walk away and most of the time my hands are on theirs.We talk about safety and glasses, and how to hold the wood. I let them cut stuff out for my car. It gives them more saw time and dad time.
I do the same thing with sanding. Go with the grain, and let them see how bad it looks going against the grain.
Painting takes time and sometimes when I see they are just slapping it on I will take a picture and make them sand it and paint it over. They usually do a much better job and compare the two. They are usually glad of it as well.
I can sit down with them when they are painting as well. They are working. I can help if needed. We have some fun conversations without me painting it for them. This might be the best part of the whole experience.
4. I enjoy making them.
I can't lie about that. I like wood working and carving. I enjoy teaching kids to do the same. I also like cars and painting, trying something new. I added so much wood to the tractor, getting it down to weight was almost impossible. It was a completely hollow shell. Challenge is a fun part of it. Next year I know even more to help the kids with.5. I let them help me with my project. (And no, that is not sanding it for me.)
They will cut on it, drill, spray paint it when they are painting theirs. Sure it might have runs in it, but I'm not building show cars. I want them to brag about their sister's car or my car, just as much as their own car. It goes back to being helpful, being a part of something important. It makes them feel great to help me.
Our family set of cars all lined up and ready to race. |
6. They learn, that going the extra mile can be fun and rewarding.
When you do something different or challenging, and people ask, How did you do that? Everyone starts thinking differently about the Pinewood Derby. It's fun to talk about.The Pink Tornado can tell you how to soak thin wood so it can be bent and clamped down to make butterfly wings that stick up and off of her car, because she did it.
The Pup can tell you about gluing lead weights in an angry bird to make it heavy, because he did it.
I can tell you a tractor looks really cool. It is the slowest car you can make, but I did it.
Each year we learn something different and add it to our knowledge for next year.
Have fun.
Build a Pinewood Derby Car.
Let the kids rub it in when they beat you.
And they will be just as proud of your car as their car.
Come to think of it, these are the same 6 reasons I like my kids being in church with me.